Influencer Jen Hamilton just spilled all the “need to know” details about her split from estranged husband Brian Hamilton.
The labor and delivery nurse explained that she’s done “being people’s PR manager” and no longer feels the need to keep the sordid details private.
“My kids know. Everybody in my orbit knows. So I’m just going to give you the details so it can give you enough information to be like, ‘OK, I get it,'” Hamilton began in an update shared via Instagram on Sunday, July 26. “If you don’t want me to talk about this stuff, I don’t know, maybe don’t do it. Or, don’t do it while you’re married to like a super public person who talks about their pubes on the internet.”
She continued, “For the people making videos saying he’s gay—God, I wish, man. Can I please trade reasons. I would give my left foot for that to be why. All you need to know is this person had a double life.”
Hamilton explained that she and Brian separated before she learned about his “double life.”
“What has come out since has caused me to deal with this as a death,” she added. “That’s what it feels like in my soul, because all the memories, all the tender moments—poof. I do not know this person. Truly.”
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The New York Times bestselling author went on to explain that she was the breadwinner in their relationship, adding that she took on the responsibility to “take stress off of him.”
“While I was at the hospital, taking care of people, he found the time to have a whole other life,” she laughed. “As someone who has never even passionately kissed anyone else in my entire life, this has broken me beyond comprehension. It was sacred to me.”
She added, “He didn’t ever really have much interest in me in that way. So I repressed my own natural human desires down to nothing so that I wouldn’t make him feel bad…He knew who he married. Everyone in this situation knows who I am.”
According to Jen, the other woman in her ex’s life told her, “I knew about you. He talked about you all the time, but I didn’t know you had so many followers.”
She teased that the other woman is “*old* enough to know better.”
Hamilton first revealed the end of her marriage in a heartbreaking Instagram video in June.